Living by the Spirit
THE GOOD SHEPHERD
Elder Johnson Akpabli · August 29, 2026 · Read · 10 min · John 10:11

About this message
Jesus calls Himself the Good Shepherd — the One who knows you, leads you, protects you, and walks with you through every valley. Discover what it means to truly follow Him.
“I am the good shepherd. The good shepherd lays down his life for the sheep.”
— John 10:11
Who Is Shepherding Your Life?
We live in a world that constantly tells us to take control.
- The world says, "Be independent." Jesus says, "Follow Me."
- The world says, "Trust yourself." Jesus says, "Trust Me."
- The world says, "Find your own path." Jesus says, "I am the way."
There is nothing wrong with being responsible, making decisions and working towards a better life. But underneath all of that is a much deeper question:
Who is leading your life?
In John 10:11, Jesus describes Himself in a rather interesting way: "I am the good shepherd."
Jesus could have simply described Himself as a King. He could have emphasized His authority, His power or His greatness. Instead, He chose the picture of a shepherd.
Why? Because a king may rule from a throne, but a shepherd walks among his sheep.
- A shepherd knows them.
- He leads them.
- He protects them.
- He stays with them.
And that is the kind of relationship Jesus wants to have with us.
1. THE GOOD SHEPHERD KNOWS YOU
“I am the good shepherd; I know my sheep and my sheep know me.”
— John 10:14
Jesus doesn't just know your name. He knows you.
- He knows the fears you don't talk about.
- He knows the pressure you are carrying.
- He knows the struggles behind your smile.
- He knows the prayers you haven't told anyone about.
- He knows the tears nobody saw.
- He knows the battles you are fighting quietly.
You are not simply another face in the crowd to God. The Shepherd knows His sheep.
But Do You Know His Voice?

Imagine a father standing in a busy shopping mall. There are hundreds of people around. Children are talking, laughing and shouting. Then somewhere in the crowd, a child cries: "Daddy!" Immediately, the father recognizes the voice.
Why? Because of relationship. He has heard that voice countless times before.
“My sheep listen to my voice; I know them, and they follow me.”
— John 10:27
This raises an important question: Can we still recognize God's voice among all the noise?
- Social media.
- Work pressure.
- Financial worries.
- Family responsibilities.
- Anxiety about tomorrow.
- Other people's expectations.
We can become so concerned about what people think of us that we forget to ask: "What does God think?" And here is an even more challenging question: If God stopped speaking to you today, how long would it take you to notice?
Our lives can become so busy and noisy that we lose sensitivity to the Shepherd's voice. That's why quiet time with God matters. There must be moments when we put the phone down, quiet the noise and simply spend time with Him through His Word and prayer.
If you struggle to recognize God's voice, don't give up. Start learning His voice. Spend time in His Word. Spend time in prayer. Make room for Him. Because in a world filled with competing voices, knowing the voice of your Shepherd can save you from many wrong turns.
2. THE GOOD SHEPHERD LEADS — HE DOESN'T PUSH
“He leads me beside quiet waters.”
— Psalm 23:2
Notice the word: leads.
A shepherd doesn't simply stand somewhere behind the sheep shouting directions. He goes ahead. The sheep follow. God desires to lead us in the same way.
The problem is that sometimes we don't want to follow.
When Life Keeps Saying "Recalculating"

Think about using GPS. You enter your destination and the GPS gives you directions. "Turn left." But you look at the road and think: "No, I know a shortcut." So you continue straight. A few moments later: "Recalculating..."
Many of us have experienced this spiritually.
- God said: Forgive. We said: "No."
- God said: Wait. We said: "I can't wait."
- God said: Serve. We said: "Maybe later."
- God said: Let it go. We held onto it.
And then life begins recalculating. Sometimes the pain we experience isn't because God failed to give us direction. We simply chose another route.
So perhaps we should ask ourselves: How many unnecessary detours have I taken because I ignored God's direction?
The beautiful thing about our Shepherd is that even after a wrong turn, He doesn't abandon us. When we surrender again, He lovingly leads us back to the right path.
3. THE GOOD SHEPHERD WALKS WITH YOU THROUGH THE VALLEY
“Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I will fear no evil, for you are with me.”
— Psalm 23:4
There is something important in that verse. David says: "I walk THROUGH the valley." He doesn't say: "I live in the valley." He doesn't say: "I build my house in the valley." He says: "I walk through."
What Is Your Valley Today?

- For someone, the valley may be financial pressure.
- For another, it may be a doctor's report.
- For a father, it may be the pressure of providing for the family.
- For a student, it may be uncertainty about the future.
- For a parent, it may be concern about a child.
- For someone else, it may be disappointment, loneliness, grief or a situation nobody else knows about.
The valley is any place in life where you feel weak, uncertain, afraid or overwhelmed. But here's the good news: God never promised that we would avoid every valley. He promised that we would not walk through them alone.
Think about driving through a long tunnel. The moment you enter, everything becomes dark. For a while, all you can see are the walls around you. But you don't stop the car, unpack your belongings and decide to live inside the tunnel. You keep driving. Why? Because you know there is another side.
Your valley may be painful. But don't allow fear, disappointment or bitterness to become your permanent address. Keep walking. Keep praying. Keep trusting. Keep believing. The Shepherd is still beside you.
The Shepherd never promised an easy journey. He promised His presence. And when you understand that, the question changes. Instead of asking: "Can I have a life without problems?" Perhaps the better question is: "Can I have God's presence in the middle of my problems?" Absolutely. And His presence changes everything.
4. SHEEP WERE NEVER DESIGNED TO WALK ALONE

A sheep separated from the flock becomes vulnerable. Together, sheep have protection, direction and community. There is a spiritual lesson here too: isolation is dangerous.
When people are hurting, one of the easiest things to do is withdraw.
- "I don't want to talk to anyone."
- "I'll deal with this myself."
- "I'm not going to church."
- "Nobody understands anyway."
But those are often the moments when we need godly community the most. God did not design us to walk through life alone. We need people who will pray with us, encourage us, correct us when necessary, notice when we are drifting, and remind us of God's faithfulness when we struggle to see it ourselves.
So ask yourself: Who is helping me stay close to God? And perhaps another question: Whom am I helping to stay close to Him? Everyone needs somebody.
A WORD TO FATHERS
This message was shared as we celebrated fathers, and there is something particularly important for every father to remember. Your children may eventually forget some of the things you bought them. They may forget some of the places you took them. They may forget how much a particular gift cost.
But there are things they are unlikely to forget:
- How you loved.
- How you prayed.
- How you spoke to them.
- How you treated their mother.
- How you treated other people.
- How you lived when nobody was applauding.
The greatest inheritance a father can leave behind is not simply money or possessions. It is a godly example. But there is something even deeper. Before we can become good fathers, good mothers, good husbands, good wives or good leaders, we must first learn to be good followers of the Good Shepherd. Before God asks us to help shepherd others, we must answer His question: "Will you allow Me to shepherd you?"
MAYBE YOU'VE WANDERED
Perhaps you are tired. Perhaps you have been carrying a burden quietly. Perhaps you've become very good at looking strong while struggling inside. Maybe life has become so busy that your relationship with God has slowly moved into the background. Maybe you have wandered. Maybe you have been trying to make every decision yourself. Maybe you've been carrying burdens you were never meant to carry alone. Maybe, without realizing it, you've been trying to become your own shepherd.
But sheep were never designed to shepherd themselves. And Jesus is still calling. Not with condemnation. Not with rejection. But with love. "Come back."
Maybe today your prayer is simply: Jesus, I need You. I need direction. I need healing. I need peace. I need to hear Your voice again. I need You to lead my life.
Then come back to the Shepherd. Because ultimately, one of the greatest decisions you will ever make isn't what career you choose, how successful you become, whom you marry or how much you accumulate. It is deciding who will shepherd your life.
“I am the good shepherd. The good shepherd lays down his life for the sheep.”
— John 10:11
He knows you. He leads you. He protects you. He walks with you through the valley. And when you wander, He still calls you back.
WHO IS SHEPHERDING YOUR LIFE?
Take a moment before you leave this page. Quiet the noise. And ask yourself: Am I truly following Jesus, or am I simply asking Him to follow the plans I've already made?
There is a difference. Following the Good Shepherd means learning His voice and trusting His direction — even when we cannot see the entire road ahead. You don't have to know everything that tomorrow holds. You just need to know the Shepherd who is leading you into tomorrow.
A Prayer
Lord Jesus, I surrender my life to You. Forgive me for the times I have ignored Your voice and chosen my own way. Be the Shepherd of my life. Lead me, guide me and draw me closer to You.
Restore what is broken. Heal what is hurting. Give me peace in the places where I am afraid and direction where I feel uncertain.
Teach me to recognize Your voice among all the noise around me, and give me the courage to follow wherever You lead. May I never forget that even when I walk through the valley, I do not walk alone.
In Jesus' name, Amen.
A sheep without a shepherd gets lost. A life without Jesus eventually does too. But anyone who follows the Good Shepherd will never walk alone.
Message notes
- Jesus chose the picture of a shepherd because He walks with us, not just rules over us.
- The Good Shepherd knows His sheep — He knows your fears, struggles, and silent prayers.
- A shepherd leads; he doesn't push. Following Jesus means trusting His direction.
- You don't have to avoid every valley — you just don't have to walk through it alone.
- Sheep need the flock. Isolation is dangerous; godly community keeps us close to God.